WHY LOVE IS EASY AND COMUNICATION ISN'T

Many people have misunderstood the concept of communication. Many relationships break because they couldn't tell each other what they really wanted. When relationships start they start with the SUGAR COATING era. This era is basically when they try their best to make the other one happy even on their loss. In my opinion this era often creates a barrier between the real you and the FAKE YOU which your partner will love. The more appreciation the other gets the more faker it gets. This is step one of not communicating aka not able to tell your partner your real opinions. Honestly if your partner really LOVES you they will see through your fake self but if they don't they blindly appreciate it. Next era is wanting your partner or your partner wanting to keep the sugar coating alive in any way but actually this really isn't how the real world works.. if it's you, you can't hide yourself. Now this era is when it mostly becomes difficult because you want to tell your partner that some things hurt you but what's stopping you is the HONEYMOON ERA basically the first one you don't want the appreciation to end and you basically just dont want to disappointed your partner. So most people instead of choosing communication choose to bear with somethings. Now if you won't tell your partner the problem you cant expect them to solve it (unless its super obvious). In my opinion this era shouldn't be smth to begin with as it just exceeds your partners expectations about you. So if you in a relationship make sure to be your true self if they don't like it they ain't the one 

love you smm all <3