some people really thinks they'll always be single cus their looks

so i have some friends who they think they're always gonna be single cus they're fat, ugly or unlike other handsome people, but i don't think that's their problem.

for me, i was dating for a long time, and in most of those times i was either bald or looked gay asf, i wasn't good looking and i was so fucking ugly, but that didn't stop me from dating at all.

cause in most times girls don't just look for a good looking man, mostly they're looking for someone to understand them and make them safe, they want someone who have a strong personality and not just looks cause you can be a good looking but without any persona and anyone can affect your thinking, that's a thing that could make girls go away.

it has nothing to do with your weight or how you look like, there are girls that can like fat men, or ugly men or short men, it all comes to the persona, they want a man.

if you can protect them and at the same time be able to understand and listen, eventually you'll find someone that'll love you, but if you keep telling yourself it's all about how you look like, you'd never get any girls.

i just wanted to post this cause many people think their look is the problem, just accept how you look like, and focus on being better.