Why am I always in the wrong to them?

Recently me and my friends made a group chat, not my idea by the way, but I want to participate. The goal of the group chat was to let everyone say what they wanted to say about each person before going into 2026. When everyone else was complaining about like other people, it was all fun and games. They were only saying things like oh I hate the fact that you moved or I hate your breath in the morning.

As soon as it got to me, people had actual complaints to say. I wanna make this clear that I’m not mad at the fact that they had things to say it’s just the way it was approached. I feel like I was attacked. They made it seem like the only thing I did was talk smack about everybody in the friend group, but I don’t remember the last time I ever did that? When I asked for proof, everyone looked at me like I was crazy.

They said that as a whole, we all lack communication skills, but I honestly think that they like empathy. When I broke down on the phone and told them that I watch my mom almost get beat to death when I was younger, they laughed. 

After that, I went around to mutual friends, seeking condolences and asking them if I was in the wrong I never ever talk smack about people that I care about and a hurtful way I told them they were taking it out of pocket.

Am I in the wrong?

XOXO, ur erotic.