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hi my kittens I hope you are well, please girls stop normalizing mysterious guys (even though they are not lol) like- please bitch you prefer to crawl behind them like DOGS to get attention? ew no thanks. We know very well that the best guys are the super active WARM guys, they always pay attention to you and make you laugh, really Wally west i love it. Seriously I boycott 100% guys who act mysterious without any personality and without political opinions, real stones. Please guys don’t lower yourself down in front of them stones, lots of girls love you and you are far above them.
BUT you have to not confuse nonchalant guys for style and shy guys because they are NOT at all the same thing! (we love you shy guys.)
SO PLEASE GIRLS WE HAVE TO BOYCOTT THEM IN 2026.
thank you bitches xx
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popia_poppy
YASSS THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT 🙌
I've come across people who say they want a nonchalant boyfriend/girlfriend, and when I ask them more about their dream relationship, they end up telling me things that a nonchalant boyfriend/girlfriend would NEVER do
Like u want a nonchalant or not?
(Shy boys/girls I luv yall)
ina ᵎᵎ
i was with one of those
never again.
Sahn-Nexus
Get yo self a Gomez Addams everyone 👏
Daeniiy <3
no literally cause this guy at my school supposedly likes me but every time someone asks him his opinion on something serious he just ignores their question..
ellavelluh🌺
AKA not Patrick Stump cuz he’s the cutest shy boy ever. Boycott looovee detox just to retoxxxx
Ririi
seeing another riri being a diva, loving wally west AND hating on "nonchalant" boys was the best thing that happened to me this month<3
Cyrus?
Real, and a lot of guys like this don't actually care about you and just want someone at their feet begging for their attention. They'll only give you just enough so you dont leave but not enough to make you feel like a person. To them, having people work so hard for their attention is a confidence booster. From my experience (more friends department but I think it still applies here), they'll never consider you an equal and they'll always look down on you even when you realize you deserve better.
KENNY
LITERALLY!!!!!!!!! I feel like if the guy rlly even likes u then he prob wont be nonchalant.... theyre just being used for attention in broad daylight & its sad and embarrassing... nonchalant men r the devil ppl need to stop giving them attention
Mari
BEEN SAYING THIS FOR A LONG TIME. they literally have no personality at all and make you feel annoying aswell. they dont show any interest to what you say or do like ew come on *eyeroll emoji* im always here for active boyfriends who actually cares and have and actual personality
«keith»␡
EXACTLY. nonchalont "boyfriends" SUCK. i'd prefer a boyfriend who has no problem expressing his love for me and being loving than someone who's all "whatever.." and bs like that. those are the worst kind of bfs and don't even qualify as boyfriends if they aren't willing to show affection. bfs that show affection and love to are the best bfs <3
kal
as a boy I AGREE! don’t settle for a “nonchalant” mf they are not worth it
Soup up/.com
totally true! Dey hella a$$ my ex was like this and he was trying to play hard or something. example when i was mad at him he was just like "wtf what's going on w u" duh? No excuses no real words that all u got.. m not generalizin abt all of them but srs not me i can't deal with this type of ppl
[̲̅S][̲̅k][̲̅e][̲̅e][̲̅t][̲̅z]
I honestly don't mind if someones all nonchalant as long as they're not being a dick about it.
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by beeheart; ; Report
I'm just saying, I also don't really get the overly nonchalant trend but it's not invalid to say the least.
by [̲̅S][̲̅k][̲̅e][̲̅e][̲̅t][̲̅z]; ; Report
No worries, I was just agreeing with you.
by beeheart; ; Report
sev3n ᝰ.ᐟ
I agree!! As a trans guy, nonchalant guys are just boring brick walls. I don't want a mysterious, dark, 4chan browsing edgelord!!!
Magnoliaaaa ^^
Omgg yess I’ve been saying this for agesss T-T we need more personalityyy!!!
Dovie
Totally agree! There’s nothing inherently wrong or “cringe” about being an active member in a relationship and being openly into your partner! I know a lot of the nonchalant bullshit is about protecting yourself from being hurt, but all you do is end up hurting your significant other! No one should have to question their place in your life; you owe them that communication.
On top of that, it’s soooo unattractive to act like you don’t care about the relationship you’re in. Why should they waste their time with someone who cares so much about looking “cool” and unaffected when they could be with someone that will take the time to build a healthy connection?
lowkroberto
Interesting. as a man, I'll take your advice and be more chalant.
Chl03
De girl
sofie
Yeah bruh, acting like they a catch fr
Nia =^-.-^=
COULDNT HAVE SAID IT BETTER TBH