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I'm confused about my gender because I present masc irl and feminine online but am nonbinary

I really like cute stuff and like to portray myself femininely online despite being male in real life, but even while online or expressing myself in that way I don't even know if I feel like going by feminine or masculine pronouns and feel more comfortable with going by they/them I suppose? I don't know if this feels hypocritical but I really admire women's fashion still despite also liking to present masculine in real life (╥﹏╥) but I often draw my internet personas/ocs as women.

So is this contradictory? It doesn't feel wrong but I feel lost in where I wanna go with my many faces or the way I present. I feel like many people at once sometimes but I don't really care honestly, because even being one thing wouldn't really make sense. 

Idk I just want to make art and enjoy the things I like, that's not a crime or anything. I have friends who are chill with my more feminine interests in real life ദ്ദി(。•̀ ,<)~✩‧₊ and besides its kinda cool to live a double life!

Call me Fenneko, or you can call me by my username if you wish. Maybe I'll post here again with some (mostly cutecore) art ˖ ࣪‧₊˚⋆✩٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و ✩


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Well, you could definitely look into different gender identities if you believe that the nonbinary label doesn't suit you. But being nonbinary doesn't force you to act one certain way, you are allowed to love an array of different things that are made for the different genders. I am genderfluid, which can fall under the nonbinary umbrella and I love to present masculine but I also very much enjoy being feminine or androgynous. At the end of the day you don't have to force yourself into a little box and you don't have to rush into labeling yourself.


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