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i literally have no firends at all. both online and offline. and don't just tell me to walk toward some random and say some normal stuff. it ain't that easy as it sounds. it feels like every single part of me is stopping me when i try to talk to someone new. and if i somehow managed to ignore that yellings, i just make the whole conversation awkward after some words about weather
genuinely how do i even make friends?
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Kaze
Yeah i can understand its hard. i know this may not be the best tip but try surrounding yourself in a place where you know the chances of you meeting someone with similar interests are high. Thats atleast how i managed to get some friends online. I know its easier said than done and i still do struggle making friends but i believe you can do it!
20Aleksa08
Hey, I know it can be hard to make friends and I think the problem is often the advice people give. If you want to approach someone irl you dont have to (and probably shouldnt) start the conversation with "normal" stuff, start with something you are passionate about, maybe something slightly unusual. That way you will be able to extend the topic and connect other stuff easier, if you start talking to someone about the weather and want to ask about their interests thats like starting 2 unconnected conversations but if you start with your interests its easier to ask about theirs. You dont even need to have similar interests but you will see their general vibe during the conversation