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Did you see my friend request and immediately get scared?

Was this you?

I'm sorry. Before you overreact, let me introduce myself.

Hi, I'm HaXxXo VtotheZ; an American music artist, clothing designer and content creator and if I added you then congratulations. Your profile seemed interesting enough for me to click a button...

That's it.

I promise you're safe. You're not in danger. I won't even message ANYONE unless they message me first for that matter.

Don't want me to friend you though? Paranoid about every social interaction? Struggle with door-to-door salesmen or unknown numbers on your phone? Fine, block me and I'll do the same. That's it. It's over. You can breathe now. Put down the Xanax...{And to be brutally honest, if that WAS you and you automatically assumed you were being preyed on and need to have your therapist on speed-dial for situations like that then maybe you're not quite ready for the internet yet. Just saying. I'm not your parent so...do what you want.}

I'm writing this because I just scroll through and add about 80-90% of the people I come across but apparently one person was so uncomfortable just because I added them that they had to perform a verbal "hit and run" with an accusation and block me. Most of you seem cool though but some of you...yeesh. 

I don't just add everyone though:

- Glorify mental illness? Nope. Not adding you.

- Promote self harm? Nope. You need Jesus.

- Drug abuse? Yeah, "your body, your choice" or whatever but I want nothing to do with it...

Here's who I did add:

- Have a cool profile? Added.

- Have cool GIFs? I secretly stole your GIFs and added you just so I wouldn't feel guilty.

- Have a movie, game or music that I also like? Added.

That's it.

Seriously. You should be flattered...not because I’m full of myself but because I genuinely dislike most people and let’s be honest, we all know that you're definitely nowhere near as interesting in real life as the psychedelic cosplay you pretend to be through the drug-soaked fever-dream hallucination you call a "profile". So the fact that I added you anyway? Congratulations. Your parasocial art project successfully bypassed my judgment long enough to trick my pattern-recognition into clicking a button. +10 points for aesthetic deception I guess. Well played. Don’t let it go to your head and please stop thinking that every guy is out to get you. Trust me, you're not as irresistible as you think you are...

Ok. I'm done being mean.

I create an account on every single social media platform because I'm an independent artist and have done my own marketing from the beginning. I connect with friends and fans along with making new ones everywhere I go. Not trying to pry, skulk or creep you out. Not going to hit on you or ask you anything a parent wouldn't. I'm a dad myself so I understand someone needing to be cautious online but I can't advocate for accusing someone of something so horrible as to say "Why are you adding me you "PDF"?" then blocking me before I can respond. That's not cool. I already deleted the comment because I didn't want to screenshot it and publicly embarrass the person that said it but trust me, if it happens again I will be forced to protect myself and sacrifice the accuser by screenshotting what they said to post here and wherever else I need to. I'm sorry but I can't allow an accusation like that to exist online especially for someone to try to manipulate me for their own personal gain through coercion or blackmail. Those get reported to the FBI Cybercrime Division. See? It pays off to be a Marine and have close government connections.😁

Anyway, if I ever do anything weird or inappropriate {which won't happen but I guess it needs to be said for the ones struggling in the back of the class} then yes, call me out. Hold me accountable. You should hold everyone to that standard. I would never say otherwise. None of that's ever going to happen but apparently if you needed that to feel better then there you go. There's a strong possibility that I might piss you off because I'm very vocal about being anti-woke, pro-science and pro-facts though but that's a totally different story.

Just please; whatever age you are, stop going around grouping all guys together in the same bucket. While I do understand that "those people" exist you shouldn't use a blanket ideology for all men. A quick Google search for my name or checking out my Child Advocacy Organization "Kids Should THRIVE" would show you that not only do I not condone that sort of behavior but would in fact offer free curbs for all of them. I don't even want the ones that dress like women in your bathrooms. Trust me, I'm on your side and I'm against all those kinds of mental illness.

Besides...the last thing you would want is to vilify all men until they give up and refuse to step in and help women when they do need it...

Wait...That's already happening 😒 {but that's a topic for another blog post...or YouTube video.}

Or worse...for ALL men to treat all women negatively for the actions of SOME women.

You definitely don't want someone like me who does all I do for women and children to look at it all and say "Nope, Fuck it. It's not worth it. They're just gonna accuse you anyway even if you try to help..." We've all seen it. The woman that accused the guy that saved her from a group of "men" that were "assaulting" her? Yeah, she accused the guy that saved her. The lady that left her window open and her baby fell out had a guy catch the baby and she still accused the guy of wrongdoing. What was he supposed to do? Watch it happen? Baby go splat? There are tons of examples like these that happen every day and someone needs to say it. I mean, I won't even get in an elevator with a woman. I'll get out. Not because I can't be around women but because the risk of hurting someone's feelings is far better than for some woman to make a false claim and some white knight beta incel cuck to try to intervene with the tired "Is there a problem miss" or worse...the police. I'm telling you ladies...you're at a dangerous point right now when men are about to permanently check out and leave you on your own. Men now would straight up rather watch a woman get attacked and walk away to avoid be accused of some B.S. than to help and it's only going to get worse the more enemies you make out of the men who WOULD have done something to help you.

Anyways, this was a long enough post as it is but apparently it needed to be said so if you're cool and have already added me then please disregard this rant. It was my fault I guess for adding people without finishing my profile...or apparently struggling to navigate through someone's online public declaration of mental illness in the form of poorly arranged code to find some random number in hopes that it might be their age instead of a clearly writing "I AM 17".

So as far as my profile goes, I intend to post music updates, special merch offers {I make emo and goth clothes through my clothing brands and plan to share it all on MY OWN PROFILE. Don't worry. I won't spam you}.

I also stream on Twitch, do tons of giveaways and intend to get back into YouTube again after such a long break. This post has definitely given me some video topics to post about...

So like I said, I understand that bad "people" exist {Men AND Women}, I'm not downplaying that or the special precautions women have to take because of them but I personally would never group an entire people for the actions of a few.

There are words to describe those types of people with that kind of thinking you know...the "___ists".

I mean, I know I'm not a 10 but I'm definitely not fat, don't own a single fedora, have never watched My Little Pony in my entire life and am absolutely not ugly enough to be hitting on undeveloped chicken nuggets with no perception of what a personality is so I have no idea where an accusation like that could even be justified. I mean, come on...half of you can barely spell so I have no idea what that was all about. Was it my profile picture? Too scary? That was my last album art headshot. I mean I liked it but damn. You know what? I'm sorry. I did say I was done being mean...forgive me.

If this post pissed you off then you might be the exact type of person I'm talking about and make no apologies for what I wrote but if you agree or have no idea what's going on then please forgive the long rant. You might not understand it or think it's not such a big deal but it IS a big deal for a guy. You have your problems and we have ours. You have no idea how much it sucks to be consciously different from the problems in the world and still be grouped in with the degenerates that you're fighting against...

P.S.

For those people saying "If you're a dad then why are you on here?"

1. I'm an American and I have a right to. Live in the U.K. or Australia? Sorry. I don't. I know it sucks and I feel for you but at least as of right now I have the right to express myself online without restriction due to the 1st Amendment in the greatest country on the planet and we haven't gone full Skynet over here...yet.

2. I make an account on EVERY SINGLE PLATFORM...especially those where my kids also have accounts.

3. My generation owned Myspace. We created scene culture, emo culture and goth culture. I haven't changed. Myspace went away; we didn't. You own nothing. Make your own culture/sub-culture if you don't want the adults who created it in those spaces.

🛑If you haven't realized by now, I'm pretty based so if you think I "might" say something that will "trigger" you then I'm 100% sure you will definitely be offended by something I say at some point...so block away kid. Go back to your brainrot.

P.P.S.

Oh and to the person I'm talking about, I've blocked you everywhere from YouTube to Instagram so don't worry, you'll never see me again. You can enjoy your hot cheetos in peace.

- HaXxXo VtotheZ