WLW dating as a emo is so hard

All the emo and scene girls i meet are super homophobic and rude what is up with bringing back the 2000's redirect esp the perfection group girls.

I am super confused when I go on tiktok and see the fallout boy song disloyal order of water a bunch of girls are posting their girlfriends where are you guys finding these girls omg

I feel so exempt from the dating pool because I live near Orange County and all there are is lululemon lesbians here so even if I hop on the apps I will get 0 likes, I need to see the girlies that are whimsical and high femme 

I really want a sapphic circle of girlies that are emo and not male centered, a lot of the girlies I know that are emo or scene only want female friends bc they are friend collectors and social networkers, it's really sad bc I will join an all girls group, they will leverage they cant go anywhere w/o their bf bring him and he is creepy and the worst

ive become such a hermit bc of this and ultimately decided i need to make more queer friends 

I rlly just want to go thrifting w other girls and have fun w/o boyfriends being weirdo lurkers and ruining my time :((