Are Normies Actually Happy?

I know most people on here probably identify under the alernative umbrella but I think we all know what I mean with "Normies". People that look like any other person, following trends, being jsut copy & paste, doing stuff like vaping because it's "cool" and forming their opinion from posts on Tik Tok.

Those people. 

I have many of them in my class and I am a bit concerd. They have a party with alcohol every weekend, even drinking in school sometimes, having partners only for s3x, moving to the next partner after like 2 days, spending all their money and always being "broke".

A girl even said "I wanna quit school, so I can work and live my drean life". Which- You make more money if you graduate secondary school and we are so close to finishing. Is it really worth it jsut so she can spend her money faster? 

Guys I don't know if the life they are pursuing right now sounds any fun. 

I am well aware not every "normie" is like this, and I am well aware that we all have our struggles. But they talk about their weekends and s3x life like it's a flex. It doesn't sound appealing to me at all.

Maybe I am not made for that life (defo not) but I feel like concentrating on school to get a good job and THEN partying sounds way more fun than throwing my whole life away just because "oh I am so young", bro I have busisness especially in this economy. >:|

Are people who grew up like this happy now? Giving up school and drinking every week? From what I have heard, lots of people struggle.

Tell me your thoughts, maybe even experience. Prove me wrong, prove me right.