schrodinger's cat observation problem

brain dump

I've been thinking about this so i thought id post it here! say you have schrodinger's cat, in the box, in superposition because it hasnt been observed to collapse the wave function. Say you are looking at this box but on the side you cant see, it is see through. Someone walks by, looks into the box, and thus collapses the probability to either dead or alive. So before you can observe it yourself, the state has been determined and your reality has been constructed, by someone else's observation, because you cannot open the box and have an opposing answer. This is very interesting to me because it's so hard for me to define the lines between what my brain is observing in the world, and what my brain is creating and projecting into my reality, rather than the concept we usually presume which is that we all live in one shared reality that we all view with the same observation. But this problem with the cat proves that other's observations can directly influence our lives, and to that i ask to what degree? what counts as an observation/measurement? If we consider panpsychism with concsiousness being a fundamental aspect to the universe, present in all matter to various degrees, then where are the lines drawn? Because all of our labels are just that, our own descriptions of what we have identified as different from something else, which is different for everyone! But definite enough for observation to occur, and not occur. Sorry for all the words this will be a mess to read!