A couple of weeks ago (as cringe as it may sound), I tried simulating the 2000's lifestyle by limiting my technology usage to things that were around in the 2000's. I realize this is a gargantuan generalization but the idea was not to recreate a 1:1 imitation of living in a certain year in that decade but to recreate a similar vibe. This meant, essentially, severely limiting my computer usage and not using my smartphone unless strictly necessary.
I'll probably explain better what I did in detail in another blog post in the future as that's not what I want to talk about.
Essentially what I want to talk about, which has been subject of reflection these past few days, is that there really is not much to do nowadays (especially in winter, when being outside is not ideal):
Low-effort social activities such as just hanging out have been replaced by low-effort "un-boring-ing" activities (activities that are low effort that postpone or that numb your boredom), primarily video games and doom-scrolling on social media. These activities, are I said, numb your boredom just enough in order to make your body not justify giving any more effort to do an activity that's just barely more entertaining.
Furthermore, smartphones and doomscrolling (as sad as that might sound) are the perfect activity for when you're tired (part of the reason why so many of us have trouble falling asleep at night), when you just want to unwind after a long day of work/school, many of us gravitate towards our phones (because from a practical standpoint, why wouldn't you?).
To this you might say "uhhh just embrace your boredom", "just be bored bro", "just do something bro". You're completely missing the point in that case.
Saying "embrace your boredom" is much much much easier said than done (as I said especially in the cold, wet, dark winter months). You can read a book after a long day of school, sure, but (especially as someone that admittedly doesn't read much) but the point is that I just do not want to, as I'm too mentally tired to do so. Maybe I'm missing the point of "embracing my boredom", but I'll allow myself to say that during the week "I spent in the 2000s" I was very bored very often, and aside from being able to not need constant stimulation, I didn't see/feel any other upsides. In short, being bored sucks.
I was so bored that my (tobacco) smoking habits changed. I would go out for a cigarette at random, just to do something.
Other than the harsh meteorological conditions there is an economical side to this. If I want to go out, where I'm at the cheapest place to do so is the bar/pub, which is pretty problematic since I can't go on a night out on a weekday and because even a beer can go for around $8 if not more. Definitely not a sustainable or a healthy habit. Other activities are even more expensive and further away from the city center, thus making going to these places (e.g the bowling alley or the arcade) even more unjustifiable.
I'm probably ranting and going on a tangent but I think I sent my point across: hanging out is too formal (and tedious if your public transit system is incredibly unreliable), boredom is boring, some activities require too much effort, it's expensive, that's why we doomscroll (other than it being super addictive).
Thank you for reading and I want to hear your thoughts.
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Nora
riempirmi di cose da fare è come riesco ad evitare questa abitudine marcia, anche se è insostenibile alla lunga: se sono in qualche modo sempre con qualcuno o a fare cose il mio cervello non ha neanche il tempo di pensare a come occupare la noia.
banalmente quando studiamo insieme in biblioteca funziona bene, perché la pausa è una chiacchierata o un giretto; dopo giornate così piene non ho bisogno di instagram, ma di un vero riposo.
sembrerebbe tutto fantastico, se non portasse al logoramento: come esseri viventi ci servono momenti tranquilli e a ritmo poco sostenuto, solo che instagram ci ha portati a pensare che una serie di attività che una volta potevano essere effettivamente rilassanti oggi non lo siano più.
il problema è circolare e non esiste altra soluzione se non quella di reinventarsi come da bambini (che frase fatta ik): da piccoli ci annoiavamo costantemente un sacco, eppure qualcosa per occupare il tempo si trovava sempre; una volta che entri nel flow di questa cosa funziona meglio, ma onestamente non ho ancora trovato LA soluzione di finitiva che mi allontani degli schermi.
☆nabets blog☆
The situation has become so complicated, I can't take it anymore. Im in your side ☆ Also trying to scape and be back 2000s
Karol
Have you tried going out for a longer walks? Yeah the weather in the winter is not ideal, but with time you may appreciate it's special charm, especially if there's snow where you live. Also taking photos on walks is a cool idea. I have recently found my old Olympus camera and use it from time to time.
As for the boredom, I think it's quite a deep and complex problem. The memories of how it was back in 2000s are often set around the time those people went to school, work etc, and this changed a lot. Also, I still believe that because of the modern commodities we unlearned how it was to be bored back then. It wasn't even just about doing something for the sake of it and more about doing things I enjoy because I have time. Hobbies were a much bigger thing back then. Also watching movies is another good time killer.
Great Idea 💡 👍
Did you find it difficult at first because it seemed naive?
by ☆nabets blog☆; ; Report
Going out for walks? Not really, the biggest issue was learning not to reach for smartphone and focus on what's around me. But other than that, it's something that simply comes with practice. I've eventually learned to appreciate nature, the quiet, and most importantly the lack of distractions, like being constantly flooded with information.
by Karol; ; Report
I agreed 💯
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Fundamental information spot of interest right here if I've ever seen one!!
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