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i genuinely cant tell if im transmasc or not cuz like lowkirkuinely ive always felt more like a guy and i hated myself when my hair was long and i always hated dresses and hated being girly but like as i got older i hyperfeminize myself???? but also it might be cuz i want validation ,,, (guilty admitting it but i do have hypersexuality, diagnosed)
but then again my entire closet is feminine gothic shit that took me years to accumulate but also ill have these random moments where i think i look better as a guy and sum people tell me im prolly genderfluid or nonbinary btu , i feel this strong need to pick a side and i lowkirkuinely dont know what to do so like if anyone has any advice or similar transmasc stories pls tell me yo i needa PICK AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HELP ME
hey guys so like can i have advice
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Zander
hey bro ik i could dm abt this but i wanted to put it here so you can organize thoughts and whatnot yea.
)) but yea just try it out see if it's nice
ok that out of the way
1 i already gave you a label suggestions if you really want a label.
2 you don't NEED to pick a side but if it's for your own comfort i totally get it and like i feel like masc makes sense for you (last time checked)
3 try things out. before i noticed i was a boy i was like "ok maybe im genderfluid and i wanna try things out amd then i did and now i get it (i'm not sure if you struggle with emotional identification like me (fucking alexithymia
4 IF YOU GENUINELY ENJOY THE FEM CLOTHES BUT THINK YPUR GENDER IS MASCULINE STILL WEAR THEM SOMETIMES BEING A BOY ISNT STOPPING YOU FROM FEELING PRETTY (i do drag sometimes and it's fun but if you think everyday life you wanna be more masculine go for it)
honestly man just try it out see what makes you comfy and feel seen ily man and i'll be here to help with your gender journey if you need
cherrycrimeade
Keep some things in mind.
1.) You can try things on without committing to the label.
It's okay to be like "hey fellas I'm gonna try going by D34TH ANG=L FA//EN" or "guys I'm gonna see how he/him feels for a bit", so you can see how affirming the feelings goes without feeling like you're being pressured to pick a side.
2.) You're allowed to stop or slow down whenever you want.
If you ever take a step that feels like it was just way too much or something felt worse, you can dial it back or think about what else it could mean for you.
I volleyed back and forth between being super girly and super masculine before cracking, trying gothy styles, vintage styles, bookish styles, preppy styles... and then I just sort of frog-potted my way across the spectrum. Started thinking of myself using she/they, then she/they/he, then they/them, then asked my friends to use he/him and picked out a kind of androgynous name, and then altered it to be flatly masculine later. And that's not necessarily the path you need to walk in specific, it's just what helped me feel the most sure about who I was. You're the most important person to listen to in this situation, so give yourself room to be honest about how you feel when you feel.
thank you so much!! ill keep this in mind i truly do appreciate it mate :)
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Expiredbug
uh sounds like genderfluid to me, also lowkirkenuinely use outside of tiktok
oooo boi do I got another one for you get ready....
lowkirkenfadeperchenuinely
unless you already knew and you just have ball knowledge like that
also I just noticed I didnt give advice at all and just sound like an ipad kid my bad
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lowkirkuienly #looking 👀👀👀 did you guys just SEE that..... this is such a peak gloving movement twin this is so dangerous thank you for the ball knowledge
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your still on gloving?? cant be doing that after the great gloving war
me and all my buddies moving to socking ( gloving with your dawgs ) no sliding cause thats lowkey cringe 👀
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