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Why is so difficult talk with new people?!!!

I love being so talkative, but I hate when is the first time that I have to meet someone, I mean, IDK what can I say, even if someone ask me something.

I feel so shy or npc, and I HATE THAT FEELING.

I need tips to to stand out in a conversation.Will you be the meat of my heart?!!!


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also I just realized why is this in the automotive category lmao


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i am the advice man
i come with advice

try finding an 'in' for your convos! it can literally be anything, just find something to talk about! for example, I was behind someone in line during break, and I saw their chromebook open on an interesting game. i ask about it, and bam now I'm sitting with someone new! it didn't amount to much, but it was something! stuff like clothing, hair, accessories, ask about it! if they're already talking to someone, ask about the things they say (when they're done talking ofc)

alternative strategy: try to find something about yourself that you find cool and can carry a conversation over! stuff like hobbies or media you're really passionate about. and just... talk about it!

or crack a joke lol

that's what's worked for me!


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