negative nancy.

sunday, dec 14th ‘25 @ 5:52pm

i love my best friend, i truly do but GOD are they such a downer. it’s always something negative with them, they can never have true fun and it’s a pain to be around especially for me. 

i understand they are going through some turmoil right now in their life, but they make it such a point and let it take over their entire existence. 

i, personally could and would never.

there’s things in my life currently that i could be stressing about but i choose not to because what the hell is stressing and btching about it going to do for me? how would that benefit me? how would it help me?

it won’t. so i turn to look at the blessings in my life, i admire it and i show my gratitude toward it. why would i spent all this precious time and energy on negativity? TEMPORARY negativity. 

i wish my best friend could understand that and or allow themselves to because i know they aren’t trying to. they think they have every disease and every mental illness and that’s why they’re so sick all the time when in fact it’s the way they think, it is the way they view everything around them, it is the way they choose to react to things that approach them.

that is what is making them sick. 

i also feel as though they are starting to take it out on me. they have began responding to my positivity with negativity, they have frequently shown unprovoked frustration with me and have shown more displeasure than they already have toward me hanging out with my other friends. 

as a spiritual woman (spiritual as in heart, body, nature, and soul NOT christian spirituality) who has worked my way from being a negative person and finding my light through my own interests and views… i can’t keep being around this.

it’s irritating and it’s disruptive. for everyone’s sake, they need to find their peace.