You don’t need a boyfriend

This may be a bit controversial but i would rather be single knowing there are guys obsessed with me than have a boyfriend. It sounds super selfish but is being selfish having confidence and self love? It is different for everyone but i personally am in a time in my life where i am bettering myself and focusing on me. I don’t yearn for the male attention at all and do not seek male validation to love myself but it does make me feel idk “ untouchable.” I value myself and my personal goals in life more than men because i wouldn’t center my life around them. Having self love is really attractive and just taking the thought and care to put effort into yourself shows how much you respect yourself. However, the thought and desire to have that kinda 2000’s romcom relationship would be to DIE for but there is no one in my life right now that would really fulfill that for me lol. If the opportunity comes up, i’ll try it out and see how it can benefit for me, but until then i’ll be focusing on myself and continuing doing the stuff i love. Not saying that i can’t still do that while being in a relationship but it’s more harder to balance yourself and your partner’s wants especially if your partner doesn’t have it figured it out for themselves. Anyways, that’s my hot take let me know what you guys think; xoxo