We finally kicked him out of our group since he's been causing us soooo much problems lately, but the thing is now he's looking for new friend groups to join๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ luckily some of the people in other groups know what he's done so they wont accept him in anyways. He's been stalking me ever since December of last year he just stopped at like august but still continued anyways all the way up to present time. Luckily i escaped him or i would've been stuck with him until now. I wasn't even his first victim, there's like three of us and their all my friends. The first one was like ever since grade 7 to 8 and after she finally escaped i was the next and it didn't last long, then the third was my other close friend which also didn't last long cause she was aware of his actions towards me and our other friend. Well to cut the story short were planning if we need to report him to the guidance again since his actions are starting to get out of hand and he might target another girl so idk really if we should report him for the THIRD time. If your wondering what he did basically he tried justifying rape, talked about sensitive topics, verbally abused me by calling me a dumb b1tch, called me stupid and a useless piece of sh1t, made fun of my friends and called them really boring, used his bestfriend for comfort only, he got really possessive and obsessive to the point he shut me out to all my friends and he did the same to my other friend before, stalked me countless times on messenger, discord and in school, made suggestive comments about me, body shamed my friend, screamed at me for hanging out with my other friends, tried to isolate me to only hang out with him, forced me to hug him so he can have "comfort", tried to convince me to swim with him so i can have the "experience" to know how it feels like to swim with a man and got really mad at me when i refused, tried to also convince me to have a sleep over with him just only the two of us, threatened to kill himself countless of times so he can guilt trip me into staying and to feeling guilty about leaving him, made me have a panic attack with how he was acting towards my friends, he used to ask what my friend was wearing everyday from her shirt, shorts or pants, bra to underwear, faked having BPD, ADHD and DID saying his N1 and N2 were his personalities which he could switch to anytime, copied the personalities of those friends who were really close to me so he could also get closer to me to the point he "created" personalities of himself like N1 to N27, he was really controlling, he tried manipulating me and my two other friends, victimized himself saying it was all our fault, wished we would get tortured, ranted to me about how he thought of wanting to kill and beat up my other friend because she "abandoned him", talked to me about him also wanting to beat me up at times and dreamt about throwing me off the bus, fantasied about me being r@ped, beaten and having s5x with him, he told me he wanted my friend to loose all her friends and make them hate her so she could go back to him and only him, sent me letters with again more suggestive comments and asked about my personal topics which i didnt really wanna talk about again, and more stuff that i cant remember but ik there's more. All i ever wanted all those months ago was to hang out with him like we usually did last year but he had other plans. I used to see him as a brother and trusted him so much since he was so "kind" towards me and the others. Its funny how someone you knew who was really close to you could have other intentions aside from being friends. He had a crush on me but it turned possessive and unhealthy. I forgot to mention he was also really misogynistic towards me and other women. Told me when he was convincing me to forgive him that "oh i heard from my "therapist" that women tend to remember more stuff that happened to them and wont let go, unlike men who just suck it up and forget or go on with it cause that's what all of us men feel, maybe your just too sensitive?"... I really don't wanna face him again in guidance. So should we report him? or would it be to complicated for the teachers to handle, cause idk what to do bro๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ (sorry for the really long essay like rant. It feels like i wrote a whole entire school essay holy crap๐ญ๐ญ)
Maybe its over? or not. (holy this is so long i dont think anyone would read ts๐ญ๐ญ)
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Good good He must begone
aisha !!
omgg im so sorry u went through such stuff. i cant believe that its the 21st century yet men with this type of behaviour IS SO NORMALISED I HATE IT. they can get away with it simply because they are men and because misogyny is so ingrained in our society. the best thing to do is just report. though in my experience, nothing happens because unless someone is hurt physically, the school doesn't do anything.
That's true, the first time we reported the teachers did try to do something about it but without any further evidence and without anyone actually getting hurt they couldn't really do anything aside from telling him to stay away from me. He even tried to edit my messages to make it look like i was the one being mean to him but i already sent all the letters and screenshots to the teachers so they knew he was lying but they couldn't really do anything about it unless he hurt me or did something really serious. So idk we might face another dead end if we report again but we'll still try tomorrow to report him

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