churros !

okayy so basically guys i need to tell u abt this guy ! we call him churros because his name is carlos and he bought me churros from the canteen at a ski place 

so we started calling almost everynight circa beginning of november and it honestly was js friendly in the beginning. i didnt have any romantic feelings for him and genuinely saw him as a friend.

when i did a formula 4 racing program back in april-dec2024 he was in my class & thats how we met. we hated each other then because we were like direct rivals/competitors.

we would play roblox all the time and he had also just gotten out of a talking stage w this girl. we'll call her a hoe.

this hoe is genuinely evil. she was so rude to him & cheated on him MULTIPLE times at parties. he would always rant abt her to me and lore drop all abt her. shes legitimately a whore im sorry #girlssupportgirls

anywho, that hoe messaged me the other night talking abt "are you two a thing? i dont wanna loose him over a nasty gf" oh..! oh...

so i panicked and we talked abt how me and him wre js friends because that's how i read the whole situation. however, i do find him cute, funny, and i wouldnt mind dating/talking to him. keep that in mind.

churros messages me shortly after and asks "are we js friends? is that cool?" so i went to bed and left him on delivered so i could debrief with my friends abt everything and craft a response.

well, that doesn't really go to plan.

he unsent the message and then sent "did *hoe* text you? what did u tell her?" like hes interrogating me..

i told him the truth and... delivered for 10 hours.

what did churros do?

he said he "got nervous that i was friendzoning him and CALLED HIS EX, AKA THAT FREAKING HOE.

now they're "rekindling things" and he also told me he "isnt allowed to call me anymore." HUH?

he is so madly in love with her, i don't get it. he doesnt talk to a lot of girls, he doesnt use social media besides tiktok and insta sometimes, and he doesnt really talk to girls in general. hes so obsessed w her. 

shes so mean too. like i dont want to put down another woman like that but shes actually so rude to everybody and has been with like 99% of the population. 

now idek what to do. im gonna loose contact w him because thats what happened in the first place. after racing he cut me off as per her request. i dont have many other friend who call me or talk to me often, i dont wanna loose him as a friend either. 

turns out tho, he mustve liked me. him saying he got nervous that i was friendzoning him was a good sign i guess? a win is a win..?

i wanna message him abt it but if i try to warn him about her again, im worried that he will like tell her or smth and itll start beef between us. trust, shes the type of girl you dont want to argue with. if i go low, she goes down to hell.

idk what to do guys help.