Love at first sight

Does it exist?

To love someone with just one look, you would have to fall in love with what you see, falling in love with pretty eyes, a nice smile, a nice body... is this true love? Or is it more like carnal and sexual attraction. Women are very beautiful, I see beautiful women everywhere I go. Does that mean I fall in love several times a day? Or maybe not, maybe that feeling isn't love.

Halo effect. You've probably already heard of this, it's actually very popular. The halo effect is a cognitive bias where an initial positive (or negative) impression about a person, brand, or product influences how we perceive their other characteristics. This means that if I see a pretty girl, I will automatically have a mental image of her where, besides being pretty, she is also kind, pleasant, funny, intelligent, and every attribute I can think of.

I could fall in love with a girl like that, although, of course, that girl doesn't exist. So, could I feel love just by seeing a person? Even if I am in love only with the idealization of the person?

Idealization is terrible. People never meet your standards because your standards are unattainable. I believe love at first sight is a form of falling in love, but it's not the right way.

I don't trust people who fall in love quickly, people you talk to for a few weeks and who already say they love you. You don't love me, you are in love, but not with me, only with what you think I am. I'm not as great as you think.

Do you want to love someone? Get to know them, but really get to know them. I wish I could live forever just to completely know the person I love. I want to know everything about her, every detail of her life, and I want her to know me too.

It doesn't seem strange to me that people have crushes on celebrities. After all, they are brands, constructed to have a perfect image, to always be cool, constructed so that no one can ever truly know them.

I don't want to make this post too long. Anyway, I love you all.