I wonder how many friendships could have been preserved if both sides had put themselves in each other’s place - or rather, if they had minimized the problem instead of letting the friendship be lost because of it 

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Most people sacrifice the concept of friendship just to avoid being seen as the one in the wrong , even though mistakes are inevitable in friendships, and holding onto them is what truly matters 

So why do people become implusive when a problem occurs and focus on proving that they are right , instead of seeing the issue as threat to their friendship?