Should you rely on virtually connected emotions?

Virtually connected emotions (online bonds, text/video-based closeness) do feel real, because your brain reacts to words, attention, validation, and connection — even if the person isn’t physically present.

But should you rely on them?
Only to a healthy extent, not blindly.

 When it’s okay to rely on virtual emotions
1. When the person is consistent, honest, and makes effort.
2. When conversations feel meaningful, not just timepass.
3. When both people are emotionally aware and clear about expectations.
4. When you keep your real-life priorities stable.

  When it becomes risky
1. When you start using that connection as your only source of comfort.
2. When you ignore red flags because you’re too attached digitally.
3. When there’s no plan for things to progress beyond “virtual”.
4. When mixed signals make you anxious more than happy.

  Why it can be dangerous
1. Limited accountability
2. Miscommunication
3. Overthinking
4. Emotional dependency
5. Fear of abandonment

Here’s the balanced truth: i'd say that :“Feel it, enjoy it, but don’t depend on it. Keep your heart open, but your mind aware.”