Lolita (the fashion and the book)

So as I researched on some jfasion in the media I stumbled on Lolita and fell in love at first sight! And I did many many researches on the history of Lolita, the pretty Lolita coords, and some fashion brands like angelic pretty and baby the stars shine bright) I made it a little goal that I would wear Lolita coord one day when I can!!! 

But even though I love Lolita I quickly also learned (the hard way o(╥﹏╥)o) that just searching Lolita won't be any good... Like I was confused and almost panicked when the book of Lolita came or even worse google making me sound like a creep!! EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT!! so I quickly learned that I had to type Lolita FASHION and not just Lolita wich I do understand but at the same time I do not

Number one the book Lolita and the fashion Lolita is entirely different and I hate that some people think that the fashion Lolita took the name of the book Lolita wich hello? If you have eyes you can tell that it's clearly not that!! even though we don't know where and wenn the name Lolita was born but we sure as hell know that it was not for THAT 

Lolita is a form of rebellion too, just like Gyaru they also rebelled from the male gaze/society but unlike Gyaru Lolita also rebelt against the choosing of being sexy or the mature big sis fashion in the early Japan fashion where it was just these two, and Lolita choose neither entering of being the modest and cute style

And the book is entirely different too! The author dint have any kinks or fetish,or is a weirdo like some of you say 

hell I bet if he knew we where going to turn the book into THAT I bet he would have not even writen it, what I know is that he wrote that book because as a child he got "mistreated" by his uncle (or a friend of his father?) and the way he even wrote that book even clearly shows he dint do it for kinks and fetish in any way it was unsettling it was disturbing because WE are in the pov of the predetor, besides the author specifically said that a girl never should be on the book cover but hear ye hear ye what did some people do?... Take a guess... PUT A GIRL ON THE COVER IGNORING THE AUTHOR WARNINGS AND EVEN MAKING A MOVIE OF IT (WICH IS PURE ASS) ike hellooo???

I won't ramble any longer but if you friends want to know more of the novel Lolita here is a link of where it perfectly dives in deeper (◍•ᴗ•◍)

https://youtu.be/KK-FfPukV-o?si=dqo7bCl_UR7zeIp8