Basically a month ago I was desperate for any attention and now I have three guys who like me. Lets call them T, L, and IZ.
Edit: they all go to my brother school.
A mutual friend, lets call him J, set me up with his hot single friend T. The problem is T is extremely dry but he is incredibly fine. Like he's a 10/10. I guess you can say I am talking to him its just that he's very dry and doesn't text back quickly.
Now L. I saw an instagram post (he goes to my brother school) and I was like damn he's fine af. I met him like a month later and we haven't really talked much since. On Saturday we had a dance and he came to it and we hung out for like 30 minutes together. His bestfriend is J, and J told me that L thinks I'm fine shyt and is into me. Problem is that L is known to be a crazy bop and to talk to multiple girls at once. He also takes hours to text back.
And finally IZ. He is someone my parents would 100% approve of. He is the same religion as me, active in the community, smart, and he's not bad looking. He is also not dry and genuinely really sweet.
And I know you guys might be thinking, girl choose IZ! I just like don't know. I mean it's the safe option but I also see more appeal in L and T.
WHAT SHOULD I DO????
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Jonas
did i get that right you're pondering about it because the other 2 guys are hotter?
and that. and they are more popular and cooler but hes more genuine but like hes not gonna get me invited to the parties and have the most fun
by 卂丂ㄒ尺丨ᗪ :>; ; Report
L talks to multiple girls at once but you talk to multiple guys at once. prob go for your own kind instead of developing a heartbreak into this IZ fellow because lets be honest you will find someone hotter and develop trust issues into iz. he reminds me of myself
by Jonas; ; Report
Well im not talking to multiple they are just all interested in me, like ig im talking to T but he hasnt sent me a message all day but hes the hottest. L is the coolest and most popular I jst rlly dont know cause my parents are very strict about dating and they have to be the same religion as me and IZ is the only one that is so i dont know what to do
by 卂丂ㄒ尺丨ᗪ :>; ; Report
bro the concern here is not religion, if you are interested in a hotter person then i dont want you to approach iz because it will end badly and that person could be putting all their effort into it, then they could develop depression or trust issues, i think you will link better with someone who thinks this way like you do. like go for someone who wants hot people, i wont say its a good idea but its better than going for someone more innocent, hate it when people do that
by Jonas; ; Report
and as a plan B. lock in and dont "pick" someone, literally take your time if you want something serious, this stuff shouldnt be a casualty, it should be something serious
by Jonas; ; Report
yeah maybe but like i know itll end bad with L because im sure hes talking to 5 other girls right now and T hasnt even texted me all day and hes so dry but like i rlly do enjoy talking and snapping with IZ and i do want a lasting relationship but like hes not like the other two and i genuinely just dont know what path i should take
by 卂丂ㄒ尺丨ᗪ :>; ; Report
its no rush rly no need to choose something yet
by Jonas; ; Report
alright i guess so
by 卂丂ㄒ尺丨ᗪ :>; ; Report
im very against the idea of being with someone in a short span of time because it never ends well and i think that it takes time if you want something real. but so many people will tell you different things.i just want you to be careful about love because it can scar you or your partner for some time if it ends, some people take it lightly and some dont so i'd say dont think about it and just let your feelings develop naturally, dont let anyone force it on you quickly either
by Jonas; ; Report