"how dare the girl i'm dating wanna talk to me?!"

sometimes i wish i could have a crush on someone again without being suspicious 24/7

not even joking, everytime i get involved with someone they're weird to me for no reason.

i was talking to this one guy a little while ago and i thought it was going so well, our humor was basically the same, we talked so easily, and he was the type to push this whole "communication is key" shit.

so imagine my surprise when he gets mad at me for communicating with him..? mind you, i was being perfectly calm at first, i genuinely only ever get angry when communicating if i'm frustrated or haven't seen change.

then like two weeks later he tells me we're incompatible because i wanna talk to him too much and it comes off as "obsessive" ? again, MIND YOU, i literally left him alone for hours at a time when he asked for it. then he says "if you wanted me to get off with my friends then you could've said something", i say no because he would've called me controlling, he says he wouldn't have.

next time i wanna talk to him, i tell him, HE CALLS ME CONTROLLING ANYWAYS????? 

you're MAD that a cute girl that you're literally DATING wants to talk to you for literally more than 2 MINUTES???

"omg yeah i wanna get to know you and talk more😍"
*tries getting to know him by talking more*
"how DARE you talk to me ?!😒🤬"

THEN he tells me he's more comfortable talking to his friends because he's known them longer, which i understood but like? how can you ever expect to be "comfortable" with me if you don't plan on knowing me at all?

he starts patronizing me "do you understand the concept of a social battery, talking to you all the time is draining." like first of all, thanks💔 second of all, he was literally speaking to the most socially tired person ever?? idk. but me personally whenever my social battery runs out the person i would want to be around is the person i'm involved with? how can you get mad at me for not understanding your way of thinking when you barely try explaining it

????!?!?!?!?!?!??!?