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im literally rolling on the fucking floor, someone made a whole entire blog about me
i dont think it directly says my name but i knows its obviously about me because yes im a "dArKshIper', and i made a comment on a post talking bout proshippers and how it makes safe spaces for pedohpiles, and while i agree with that, i wasnt understanding why they made it say a bunch of shit about darkshippers too?
i get it, its hard to see anything good about darkshippers, you think they're weird and gross and that's completely understandable, but at the same time, there are traumatized people trying to cope, and harassing them does nothing to help.
it doesnt stop them from consuming the media, it doesnt stop them from shipping characters, and it doesnt stop them from being traumatized from something they cant get back.4
in my own experience, i started "dark shipping" to help coped with being r*ped as a child and groomed by family members, i developed hypersexuality at a very young age that was stress inducing and gave me chronic anxiety due to the thoughts i physically couldnt control.
and consuming this dark media helped me cope, it helped me control situations i was in in the past that i couldnt have controlled before, i use journaling and writing fanficiton with my own personal ocs to write out things that happened and it makes my thoughts less severe and overall has helped with my anxiety a lot.
i think some darkshippers are weird, that is why i dont really like to use the term darkshipper on myself because everybody immeadiatley assumes that im defending reallife rapists and pedos, when im not, if i could kill all of them i would in a heart beat, nobody ever deserves to go through a trauma like that and i feel heavily for all the survivors or people who are currently going through that.
so please, if you see a darkshipper, just ignore them, block them and dont even comment on their posts if it hurts you, they are trying their best and while i dont agree with posting your dark media stuff on a public platform, there is nothing we can do to stop it, so just leave it be and move on.
im sorry if there are any mispells or repeated words/letters, im kind of dyslexic, if you would like me to clear up anything in the comment then i will.
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Cas
Regardless, I think some people have a difficult time distinguishing between fiction and reality. I'm a proshipper in the sense that I don't care what other people read or write. It's none of my business.
I watched a great video the other day where she mentioned how, for children, it's sometimes difficult to grasp that these characters aren't real, and how we can get so emotionally attached to certain characters that we can almost believe they are real. And to an extent, I agree. I think some people view these characters as individuals who genuinely exist and have morals that they are expected to uphold in modern society.
The truth is that your personal morals don't have to reflect on fiction. That's why many fandom spaces are for adults only, as they can understand that reading dark fiction does not change who they are in society. Fiction does not make you a pedophile.
You don't deserve to be harassed for enjoying something taboo. I doubt you would engage in those fantasies in real life. That's why they are fantasies.
I'm sorry about what happened to you, I hope you're doing okay.
i am doing great now, thank you for worrying about me kind soul :)), im going into therapy soon because journaling and writing doesnt always work the best, i completely agree with what you are saying which is why i think that minors should also get therapy as well, not saying they shouldn't be allowed to continue to darkship but i hope the ones that do stay safe and dont get too in their head (from experience its very damaging)
by acidic_leo; ; Report
you're actually so real jody
also leo I happen to saw what happened in Dana's blog, i actually hope you're doing okay <3
by ☆﹒zoyrilius﹒☆; ; Report
it was really stressful to argue with people like that especially because they were mostly cursing at me and calling me names instead of actually respectfully debating, and then stretching my words beyond belief, the whole thing was a mess but im doing fine now and blocked most of them, (also because one of the people there followed me back to my page and that just left a bad taste in my mouth and i see that as harrasment.)
thank you for the concern and love ^^ ☆*: .｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆
by acidic_leo; ; Report