how do I do this??

I have this one friend who I had up and downs w/ , I'll call her mantis

it started as us being good friends until she copied me, I used to be a selfish dingus and took it the wrong way (its still wrong to copy but I should've understand her perspective) we went cross with each other and she stole my bsf of nearly 9 years now, shes somewhat problematic and after all that useless rumble I made up to them because I know its right, we went back as a trio and then she acted up saying she doesn't wanna be in the trio, now me, my bsf and this dude play this dead kewl game called guts and blackpowder on Roblox and we have been doing a lot of gaming sesh and we always post it on our status via WhatsApp, then mantis started feeling like shes left out but me and my bsf already tried to bring her into the fandom and get her to know the game and during the time we tried to give her a tutorial it was visible she lost interest quickly just like she how she loses her interests quickly in her so called friends, she keeps getting upset when me and my gng do a gaming sesh, when shes the one who doesn't want a trio and recently she posted a status about being left out in a trio? I've been patient with this girl for a dang long time and I don't know what to do


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i agree with the other comments, just cut her off especially if youve tried resolving things in the past. its not worth the worry if shes like that constantly.


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No more spacehey in brazil :(

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cut her off


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she low-key did before I could but she said shes 'starting over' and I hope she evolves and NOT devolves

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i hope she dies honestly but its not important since im not part of this whole thing

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"she acted up saying she doesn't wanna be in the trio,"

"she posted a status about being left out in a trio?"

Whattt I think you should let her go, I feel like she's having a mess up of stuff of the words she's saying?


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I'm trying to let her go but shes kind of like hard poop (trying to get it out but you cant and eventually it will get out), she did say she wants to start over and tried to cut me off before I did to her but for some reason she said she couldn't and she posts a lot of stuff on her status and she always thought that I was 'ignoring' her even if I DID reassure her that I'm not ignoring her, I'm just lazy and she also thinks I hide my status from her when I just barely post because its either I'm grinding or getting a better life. its kinda hard to cut off because there's a LOT shes done that I haven't mentioned and she never realized what shes done wrong and she sulks a lot more than my grandma, plus, she lives really near me and shes very hard to avoid because shes part time worrying for me and part time clingy

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Uh oh

"she said she couldn't and she posts a lot of stuff on her status"

It sounds like she has been through something to that makes her think like that and she is probably coping with the pain she feels inside.

"LOT shes done that I haven't mentioned and she never realized what shes done wrong "

You should try breaking down step by step the stuff she did wrong, hopefully that will make her realize what she did wrong.

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genuinely cant break it down because shes gonna go on a fit about me and my recent blog is just like 1/10 the things she did

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At this point, if she is going to have a fit over the problems she has done, it just goes to show she can't face the reality of what she did wrong and doesn't want to take her FATE time to tell what she did wrong, whether she likes it or not.

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