Selfshipping and Minding Your Own Business

hi my first blog post and im already truking. i selfship hard and i know people who selfship hard as well, or as some may call it "yumeshipping". i do think that selfshipping can get out of hand and sometimes lead to psychosis but i feel like most people need to realize that they need to mind their own business. it shouldnt hurt you if someone is crushing on and likes to fantasize that theyre in a relationship with a fictional character, we all played pretend as kids. it should not hurt you if someone blocks someone ELSE for being a """double""" of a character they yume. its the internet, people are gonna block to curate their experience ;-;. its one thing to be in active psychosis and another thing to gatekeep (a symptom of hyperfixation + autism) (gatekeeping shouldnt hurt other people, but its okay to gatekeep a fixation) another thing as a person whos a diagnosed autist and falls on the aromantic spectrum- people with the same thought process as me are going to catch themselves relating and loving a fictional character more, finding comfort in something or someone thats fictional, loving and HYPERFIXATING on a character. if that makes you mad then you need to reevaluate what you should be focusing on. trust me, some kid selfshipping with durin from genshin impact will not kill you.