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What i texted to her
" What makes you like someone who's 30+ when you're only 17? I understand your preferences, but when it comes to having him as your life partner, when I say it's not suitable, you say I'm overthinking it and have an old-fashioned mind. I can tell from the chat that it's not that serious. Plus, you're 30 and have never had a girlfriend, and when you talked to me, you clearly abandoned me. How many times have I told you not to mention this again? At first, I could accept what you wanted, but lately, you've been mentioning it so often that it's become annoying. Then you come and complain to me, "He blocked me to protect his image, he's selfish, and he never sees me that way." I bet he doesn't want to be socially shunned because you're 17 and he's 30 "
Guys what should i do now?
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alex
just to make very clear, 17 and 30 is very creepy and predatory. when i was freshly 17 i met a guy online who was infact 30, and luckily has enough courage to block him and get away before anything serious came of it. 17 is still considered being a minor even though many places have the age of consent at 16/17. 17 year olds are still in highschool. most 17 year olds still live with their parents. NO 30 year old should find a 17 yr old attractive. if that person is worried about showing their face then that proves the very fact they know its wrong and could/should be shamed for it. age gaps are ok, but much later in life when your brain has had time to develop. keep telling your friend its wrong and its predatory, even if she disagrees. as a person who has went through this exact same thing, it took me telling my bestfriend and her telling me "this man is grooming you, im sorry, but this isnt ok" that made me realize i needed to leave. i thank her so much because i can only fear what could have happened if i didnt listen. sometimes being a good friend is calling bad shit out.
She said im not even her mom i told her many times that STOP TO BEING IN LOVE IN THAT WAY!!! he blocked her but she still finding him!!! Now she talking with person are 26 years old! I told her its not normally to talk with people have much age gape they can be grooming you
She said "love doesn't matter about age someone are 18 but in love with 56 years old" ngl my jaw are dropped
I told her "is normally that you fall in love with someone older then you BUT ITS NOT NORMALLY THAT PERSON IN LOVE WITH YOU AND YOU'RE 17!!!!"
I hope she will realize soon
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Kuroline_0blivionKid
She said : You're not even my mom.