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Why is it so hard to talk to people on here?

Look, I get that it's lowk weird messaging people on apps like this. I'm still terrified of messaging people on Tumblr half the time, but literally come on. 

I feel like everyone I have EVER messaged on here is just so dry. And I'm not gonna be like, evil about it, but seriously. I genuinely wanna like, meet people and form lasting connections, and then I get hit with a "Kool". Bro. 

It might just be me and all, but it feels like an uphill battle 


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Floyd

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When people come to talk to me they usually ask very bland questions and I can tell they only wanna kill time by talking to me. On the other hand... THE NOTIFICATIONS ARE ABSOLUTELY BROKEN. For example I usually keep the website open on my laptop and i have to refresh so get the new messages icon, but I also have the app on my phone and notificatiob pop up like hours late??? And by the time I respond the other person is gone


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Witek :3

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So it's not just my poor social skills lol? It kinda feels like I'm the only one asking questions/trying to make an effort and I get answers that are hard to respond to/carry conversation further


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Exactlyyy, and that's half my issue like I don't mind ur messaging style but it gets to the point where I'm just gonna give up if I'm the only one putting effort into the convo

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GOAT

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idc for the instant messenger thing much

blog n bulletin cmnts are where its rly at <3


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I might lowkhave to start resorting to that ✋

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Lucia

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Honestly for me im just nervous so im dry sometimes but idk about others 🤷‍♀️


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I always respect being nervous, I lowk am too when it comes to messaging, but it always gets to me when it start feeling like I'm the only one contributing to the conversation

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