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i'm really stressed about this, im fine with being a girl. i think that if i never knew about being trans, i would have never given it any thought. maybe just the occasional tomboyish thoughts. ive always wanted a flat chest too, i never understood why majority of girls hated being flat.
now im just kinda confused. im already super insecure, so im gonna be upset with my body no matter what. weather it be worried i look ugly or too girly. ive been having such weird thoughts, i've kinda given up with it and just blamed it on puberty because like.. idk thats lwk when everyone else is also putting up with weird thoughts?
i wish i could just be reborn as a man and live life like that. just a normal cisman, who's never had to put up with gender dysphoria.
maybe im actually trans, or maybe im just a kid 💔✌️
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☆C0sm0!☆ (˶ˆᗜˆ˵)
I feel you on this, buddy...I've gone back and forth with my gender, but in the end, I just found it easier to go by she/they since it kinda gives me a sense of freedom. Not to mention, I dress in many different styles, so that kinda also helps. Being a guy definitly does sound much better than being a women, but being a women also sounds fire...ANYWAYS, I'm sure your an amazing person and I hope you can silence the voices one day my friend :)
♥︎char♥︎
I'm a cis guy so I don't really speak from experience, but I have a lot of trans buddies and know of people who started identifying as the opposite gender only to go back.
It's okay and encouraged to try out dressing a certain way and even identifying differently; see if you feel more comfortable. There's a lot of labels and genders and it just takes research to see which one makes you feel good about yourself.
Growing up is weird and body dysphoria is something most people feel at some point in their life.
Really wishing you the best, can't imagine what it's like for you. <333
Hats 9999
When I first started investigating if I was actually trans or not, I had those exact feelings. If I didn't know about being trans, I probably never would've give it a thought. Uhhh there was smth else that I wanted to say, but I lowkey forgot.
If you give yourself time, and maybe look into more genders or things (like Demi-boy, I always knew I wasn't exactly trans, when i found Demi-boy i was so happy) you'll likely figure it out. This does take time, annoying it doesn't just pop into your head one day, it took me more than half a year to find the right label and finally acknowledge I was trans.
Best wishes for the future!
KoV.va
That sounds emotionally confusing, im praying for u gang
God made u the way u are for a reason, but i completely understand feeling weird about myself