"aesthetics" in fashion

i feel like theres sm hate when it comes to certain styles and its likeee why??????? why r ppl so adamant about ppl falling into categories they like & not ppl wearing what they want!! this is seen soooooo heavily in scene/emo spaces like omfggg we lost the plot! why r you hating on someone who won't straighten their hair for side bangs? idk, alt scenes are super weird. that's all! :3