Express yourself!!!

Okay this is my first blog so please ignore how shitty it is. Is it just me or do people worry more about what you look like and how you dress more than yourself? Like all throughout middle school and high school some people make mean comments about how I dress and the kind of music I like. Like why are you so invested in my life? They all act like they're going to die if I dress differently than what they're used to.

To be honest these types of people make it harder for people to express their selves the way they really want to. Do they not think about what they say to people? Do they ever think "maybe I shouldn't say this because it could hurt their feelings and in general just rude asf?" People are so inconsiderate and I hate it. I believe those kinds of people just don't know how to express their selves. Like are you mean to me because you want to dress the way I dress but are just too scared of what people might say? I doubt it but it's a thought.

Personally, me I'm generally a shy and non-social person because I just find it hard to talk to people I don't know so when people make mean comments about how I present myself It's just like what the hell am I meant to say? I'm surely not going to apologize for how I want to present myself because at the end of the day this how I want to present MYSELF. I just hate how people are more bothered of how I dress than I am myself. In the end no matter what anybody says ill still express myself how I want because that's who I am. What are you thoughts on this?