Domestic violence is everyone’s issue

I am writing this because I have had the worst 3 weeks ever.  But this is not what you expect.  13 years ago, given me severe PTSD here.  And there was a reason.

I was a victim of mental domestic violence, or Coercive Control.  And that is exactly the same as physical DV.  It is the same psychological trauma.  And I do sometimes never talk to a woman at all when I see someone like her… or a boss like that.  Now I know why I run my own business that will treat employees with respect dignity and love.

But I a, an example of the minority of men that suffer through this everyday, yet tell no one as they are not believed.  Or too scared they get charged with DV.  Which I was trying to stop her emotional abuse by holding heart arm while she tried to push me. Stealing paperwork.

Yet all this is moot as women social workers blame MEN all the time and focus… I mean only say that just women are the victims…. Yesterday I was really upset, and I wanted to make a show about it.  But I didn’t.

DV is not just a woman issue, it is an everyone issue…. And this needs to be equally based in ALL genders.

Sometimes I can’t tell a good friend on here that I have a crush on her… even though she is in the UK and Ms C is taken..  but I am scared that things will happen again!  So yeah..  DV and coercive control needs to stop now!