Ok, Edward or Jacob?

I know this has been argued over for like years or wtv. But seriously, are we still choosing Edward? 

No offense to anyone who chooses him yk, to each their own. But Edward is so toxic💔 And hasn't it been proven that Bella and Edward are like addicted to each other and not actually in love? And the time he abandoned her in the woods ALONE, caused a whole depressive episode that lasted MONTHS, and even hallucinations.

 Not to mention the strain this relationship caused to Bella's relationships with her friends and family. I mean cmon that's not even the end of all the red flags this guy has.  Edward just isnt worth it, and the only thing that made Edward love her or tbh obsess over her in the first place was Bella's scent and the fact he can't read her mind. And in turn, Bella is just obsessed over aging and being immortal because being next to Edward leads to her constantly being insecure with herself!!!!

And if we look at how she acts with Jacob, we can see shes much more happier with him, and he even snaps her out of her aging insecurity. The only downside is that she lowkey uses him as a rebound.  

In all that i've seen of Edward, im sorry, but theres NO way im choosing him T-T. I'll stayy with Jacob 4 life! 

But!! I'd love to hear your opinions<33!!