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hi guys, how do i tell my best friend, who's a closeted gay man, that i'm uncomfortable and lowkey suffocated by him… like he's treating me like his gf, saying he loves me all the time, kissing my neck, literally trying to kiss me 😭 like ew.
and i miss how our friendship was before, when we used to roast each other, push each other around, act like siblings n all that.
i just want things to go back to normal without him getting distant from me.
and like be fr, he’s such a bottom it’s actually insane. why would i date him?? what are we gonna do, smack our asses together?? that’s gonna spark electricity or what 😭😭
i literally cannot picture me n him as a couple, i swear it makes me wanna throw up
help me guys
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nick_0tine
You need to pull him aside and be real with him... like “man i love you but you’re crossing lines and it’s making me uncomfortable.” you don’t have to make it deep, just set the boundary. remind him you miss the old vibe, the goofy sibling energy, not the weird almost-dating stuff.
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he’s probably clinging to you cuz he feels safe, but that doesn’t mean you have to put up with being treated like his stand-in boyfriend. Tell him straight up you’re not into him like that and you need physical/romantic space, but you still care about the friendship.
if he values you, he’ll adjust. if he gets distant for a bit, that’s normal, people need time to recalibrate. but it’s better than staying uncomfortable and resentful. Boundaries don’t ruin friendships, they actually keep them from getting weird.
just be honest, kind, but still firm. you got this
thank u, I'll try to gather courage aaa
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