I have this girl in my class and I'm head-over heels for her.Her hair,her smile,her humor and love of cats makes my heart beat for her.
I really want to confess but I'm afraid that she rejects me,and I ruin my friendship with her.
The fact that I can't tell her how I feel kills me inside,anybody got any tips for me?
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Lia's Infirmary
I hope things go well. My advice is to give slow hints, see if she's into you the same way. But before you do that, keep in mind that you don't -> need <- to be in a relationship. It's a thing many people deal with, meditate. Think if you really like her in that way or you're just feeling lonely and she's really just a friend. If you do think about it and believe you do love her, then go for it, as I said, small hints like gifts, little notes (also, it's good to write down your feelings on her, helps sort things out.), trying to hold hands. Keep it small, if she responds, you should definitely confess to her. But it's also ok if she doesn't feel anything back. Stay safe, stay kind.
BajaBlast
uhmmm take it slow i think? like start talking to her during your free time to find out more about her, then start giving her candies and little gifts and she may like you more, hope this helps!
XxlunaticxX
Idk I'm sorry dude, but I know how that feels I'm sadly in love with my best friend but we're both aroace I don't think it will work, so I don't think I'll ever confess
LEGALLY DEAD
its either you suffer with not telling her or tell her and get the chance. its suffering without telling her but a 50/50 with telling her.
Kaikai
Bro you got this. It takes a leap of faith honestly and try to be confident. It's just confessing and letting her know your feelings. You got it!
Milodescorpion._.^_^
Don't be shy, bro. Trust what you feel. The worst that could happen is she says no, but that's better than living the rest of your life regretting not telling her how you feel.
(Just be yourself, you can do it!)
catduck
hopefully it goes well for you and if it doesnt it isnt the end of the world
star !!
my advice is to get to know her better, and if you feel like she wouldn't stop being friends with you if she doesn't like you back, then you have nothing to lose! go for it! over summer break, I told my best friend how I felt about her and now she's my girlfriend and she's awesome. I've totally been where you are, and you've got this!!!
Thannks for your advice,technically I know for my whole life,but I only knew her by face
I got to know her better when we got in the same class in secondary school
We went to get tea together,she got made fun of by a guy she knows and she said its not like that......fuck
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Halana
I have the same problem. I advise you to get closer to her and spend time with her; maybe she'll gain your trust. Give her gifts, but if she likes crafts, try doing them yourself.You're going to impress her.
Thank you for your advice,Im planning to give her something on Christmas,I know she likes F1.Maybe a F1 car Lego? Or some McClaren merch.
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Lego sounds good
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