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so i finally got a wonderful sexy boyfriend and my boyfriend has this friend he tells EVERYTHING so i had assumed he told her about our relationship but when i was talking to her about my boyfriend shes all like "WHAT". i didnt think too much of it because i'd be shocked too, me and him seemed like the last people to get together. important side note, me and him are in 2 seperate grades, so i only see him on the bus and in the hallways. So i see him in the hallway and hes like "did you tell (insert friends name) we were dating?" and i was like "yeah it slipped out i thought you told her" and he was like "no and now she told the entirety of my grade that we're dating" and so obvi i was freaking out and ofc my next class is the one with his and my grade mixed (cuz in my school we dont mix except chorus and gym and stuff) and when i got there, some girl was like "ARE YOU DATING (boyfriends full gov name)?!" but i just ignored them and then the next period some kid ive never even seen before is like "are you dating (boyfriends name)?" so ofc i ignored them too and luckily that was the last period and we had off the next day (today) but now im scared because tmw when i go back i feel like everyone is gonna be looking at meeeee :(
people suck most of the time, take this for example
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Well, while it may seem frustrating, she told everyone in the grade that you guys are now together, I think (personally) it's not a big deal. I'm sure those people asking aren't asking because they are judging or have ill intentions, just out of curiosity, also to make sure it wasn't gossip and was truthful. I can see how it can be uncomfortable to have all eyes on you because of upcoming news, but to deem people aren't "great" because of curiosity isn't the way to go about things, I think. I also, for the record, don't think you were in the wrong for telling that friend about the relationship you held with that guy, especially considering they seemed to be close in some way. Everyone is entitled to their own feelings, but I will say you guys being the talk of school or whatever won't last as long as you guys may think. People will move on to the next "big" thing, and you guys won't be in the spotlight no longer being able to have your relationship private. I will say just make sure he isn't upset because people found YOU are with him or he's taken and no longer single, not trying to bring a worry or anything, but I think its important to know he is upset because of the amount of attention and people possibly budging into your guys relationship rather than people finding out and you not being a secret. I've seen a few women I was friends with or noticed as a third party get played by men who kept their relationship a secret. Private is different from secret. (This is just to acknowledge, obviously not trying to say I know the full extent of things, so take what I'm saying with a grain of salt and do what's healthy for YOU)
So I recommend you speak to your partner about what happened recently and talk about why he may have been upset. It's important to acknowledge him and try to understand, but you also express your feelings and why you did what you did. Communication is the key to a strong, healthy relationship.