I am so confused

you know when you watch all those stupid rom coms and read those cheesy books about finding the right person, and it always works out for them, they always get their happy ending, not that I wont get mine but why does it come so easy to them? most of the time they dont go through the "toxic partner phase" or that one person that you can't tell if they like you or not? nope because this only happens in real life. 

people keep saying to keep looking that "the right person is somewhere out there" but why do the right people never come across each other? genuine question, and this isnt just about romantic relationships but, why is it that good people always and constantly complain about being mistreated by him or her and there are so many of them but somehow they never meet? 

I hope whatever I'm saying makes sense it's just I am so confused, so much has happened in my life this october I dont know how to handle all of it...

is anybody even gonna read this?