i prepose we apeal this social rule

i think its stupid that people think im rude if i say i dont want to hang out my social battery is so low i already have to go to school and i come home miserable and i need a break i also say we should tell them there has to be a time that they go home and they say oh well see or ill call my parents when i wanna go home and its dumb i need to be able to plan in my schedule. i dont have fun when i talk to my friends in person i just like texting them so when i need a break i can take a break from talking and it not be a problem >::::(