Sex talk

So i wantet to talk about a theme where the opinions are very different abt sex!


First of all this blog goes to the people who think everyone who has sex is a wh@re if you just don’t want to do it bcs of private reasons it’s fully okay I accept your opinion:)

And if you have like traumas and can’t hear abt it you probably shouldn’t read this

We all saw on tiktok these videos where people talk negatively Abt sex and everyone who does it is a wh@re so I’m gonna say my opinion!


I think everyone should what they want without getting hated for, if you want to sleep with 100 people do it i really don’t care as long the other person is single! And to the people who think sleeping with your own Boyfriend is not okay please leave bcs thats the way you’ve been made!

I love my boyfriend not for sex but to be honest it really strongs the relationship, it’s not that we only sleep with each other we cuddle, go on trips, laugh together, cry together and much more but yes we do it like everyday when we’re together and i think that’s totally okay.


I would love to hear your opinions and sorry for my bad English.

Have a nice day yall!


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your_local_metalhead

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as someone who hasnt had sex and doesnt see it happening anytime soon, i see sex as the final stage of trust. being unafraid to be so vulnerable with someone shows how much you trust and care for them.
but what the fuck do i know?


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ItzR4v3n

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I really don't get the hate for sex, like sorry that people have different ways of having pleasure??? Please don't be a traditional extremist??

My parents banned me from having sex before marriage, but my mom also sat down and told me I am very much allowed to experiment

Really, I think sex is all about boundaries set in a different area. Sexual relationship? Go for it, friends with benefits, one night stands? Do what you want, AS LONG AS NEITHER OF YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE

That's it.

But also like, don't go around blasting how many times you have sex, unless you've been specifically asked??? A guy friend of mine called another friend of mine and made her guess how many times he and his new gf, who he visited after being long-distance (mind you they knew each other for like what? A month??) did the YK? Like dude, NO? Bless her heart for not immediately yelling at him, but wtf

Anyways, yeah.
Do what you want, don't break the rules, make sure you're within boundaries, badabim badabum


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Yeah exactly i mean if someone doesn’t want to do it that’s totally fine and shouldn’t be judget but then please respect other opinions as long it’s not your partner mind your own business!

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i totally agree! a relationship isn't about just sex, its about everything other than sex. as a person who has never done it nor want to, sex can feel weird or it can be difficult for some people as its a period where you show your partner the most vulnerable part of yourself, but its an act that can also bring you closer to each other!!

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