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Im muslim but im not that religious, i mean yes i believe in god but no i dont believe in religion, and tbh idc about any other peoples religions or either their religious or no. i got into a fight with my religious best friend cuz i dont believe in religions, i reposted a tiktok abt "its all gods plan, never let bro plan ever again" and i mean some people will agree with me and some not but idc honestly cuz not all our opinions have to be the same right? and no matter when i vent to my best friend, she tells me to pray to god and read the quran and make duas or wtv, um girl dyk im NOT religious?? and doesnt mean im not happy or im feeling down or depressed means im not close to god, no honey that has NOTHING to do with it. everyone suffers in their own ways, like imagine someone has a disorder and they vent to you how they suffer from it, you throw them with the "oh no your completly fine jst go pray" babes thats gonna make the person blame themselves bec of the suffer theyre dealing with. and then when i started to not vent to her anymore she gets sad!? like girl bffr rn tf!? im in class rn while writing this and in the break time, i saw her with one of our friends walking to jiu jitsu practice without me, when im supposed to go with them they didnt even dare and tell me. if my bsf asked me to forgive her, i will but im sorry i wont trust you more like before. i gave her all of my darkest secrets and i dont think im comfortable telling her anymore. i will update yall if i have new updates!
milo out!!!
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daisy!☆
hope things get better!!
pawsheen
oh my...god why cant people just understand not EVERYTHING is gods plan??? and its just mad disrespectful to full on vent to someone about problems/trauma. especially if the person is not religious that is the biggest thing SOME of them forget all the time im so so so sorry this is happening to u its so stressful and irritating and once they think u dont belive in god they automatically think ur satanic or the devils work when its rlly just an opinion sorry if bad grammar im writing this half asleep but anyways my best advice would be to try to explain to her(if u can) that it kinda makes u upset that she says those things and explain how it doesnt mean u dont belive in god but u want something a bit more yk... realistic maybe?? a diffrent answer??? unsure how to put it... goodluck i hope u have a good day/night besides from this >.<
also i dont blame u for not trusting her anymore
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tysm for your kind response! <3 i honestly believe in god and yes i believe in his words but my suffering isnt because im not close to him enough, i honestly dont blame my best friend nor myself, maybe she jst misunderstood the situation and i should jst get the guts and courage to go talk to here, anywho tysm for ur reply again!!! <333
by 𐔌 . ⋮ milo .ᐟ ֹ ₊ ꒱; ; Report
yes i understand i thonk that communication is key!!
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Lamby
i get that feeling so much :-( like my religion is and has always been something close and personal to me and I hate the way it's been mangled in our culture 3
It's like some ppl can't wrap their heads around the fact that you are not any less of a person because of the way you choose to worship... Kind of like a hive mind if that makes sense?? "You do what you are told to do, You Are what you're allowed to be, and only that, and if you are anything else you are ungrateful and lesser" seems 2 be a common sentiment in very religious spaces,, as if faith is built upon never questioning anything,& your trust is built upon fear & control.
I don't hv advice but what I can say is what you do, you do for yourself and because you want to. Not because other ppl tell you to, or because you are afraid. Faith shouldn't become a goal to end suffering.
srry 4 the long rant,, but i genuinely hope you can find people that can respect you and love you for who you are as you are :-( It may feel bleak, esp if you live somewhere tht's vry conservative,, but there will be people in this world you will meet who will accept and understand you ,even if it not that way right now<3