Making it through betrayal and loss

In life, there is always a time for happiness and a time for sadness. But do know, after the storm, there will be better and brighter days ahead. 

If you have experienced about betrayal and loss, I feel your pain. It may come from people you trust and love the most. It may shatter your heart, and your faith with others. It can only happen within love. And that is a very hard thing to accept and realize. For I was once in that ordeal, too. How one can make it through betrayal and loss? Muster up. Acknowledge the pain, and grieve it if you must. Like I did. Take it as an opportunity of growth. Take it also, as a motivation in life and strength. You become cautious, bolder, wiser and stronger. You rise above it all. The heart is wise. 

It is only normal that you are at shock. Mourn now and soon you will recover. In this, you have to accept and move on. Focus on self-love and self-care. And all the suffering will be over. Never root for revenge. Never let those that failed you to re-enter your life. It is not worth the energy and time. Your efforts must only dwell with your success and inner healing. That is how you win in life. And when you are healed, it means the damage no longer control your life. It may come back as a memory and reminder, but do know, you are strong already as you have dealt with it in the long run.

You can forgive but never forget. Always put yourself, your safety, and those that were there for you at the most hardest moments of your life as a top priority. 

May this post make it easier for you. 

🖤🖤🖤, 

Devruhadabra