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i really dont know how to make friends unless its online. my fiance who i live with? we met online. theres nothing wrong with meeting your spouse online, of course, but i wish i had better social skills in person. i have 2 kind-of-friends at work. i have one friend from school that i still talk to. im just kind of lonely i guess. it sucks watching all my online friends go to parties and hangouts with like 5 other people and i can barely find it in me to hang out with 1 person offline at any given moment. idk how to meet new people either. im awkward and super mentally ill and it just sucks.
i wish i had more people to hang out with
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✮ Jay ✮
i think just going for it works? it lowkey sucks ass, like-- im bad at it as well, but the more u get used to it, the more u'll improve? Maybe look at local events, fairs, clubs, stuff like that to look at. Just go out more in general if u dont already, hell even the library will do. Sometimes they even have event posters on the board too. Maybe (depending on where u live and the social expectations), u can smile or say good morning to ppl u walk by, but that depends on if thats normal where u live, but its a way to start off small and build confidence if its possible! But yeah, socializing is hard in general and its very awkward at first, but im sure u can do it at some point!! U got this :D
hey i appreciate it :) i was thinking of going to more local events but idk. i gotta reach out to my friends from work and actually hang out with them too. thanks for the advice!
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