'lost it all'

this is a continuation of my 'replying to blogs' series, since in my own way i think my comments can serve as blogs just as well (since spacehey just drains them into nothingness once the blog is forgotten about). i won't link the original blog since it's kind of personal, but this is what i wrote, and i think everyone could take something from it:

hey man, life is unfair, i think we all know that, but is it really a sensible option to actually only look at the bad side? sure, what has been done to you has definitely hurt you and messed you up in the inside somehow and you have all the right in the world to cry and scream about it, it's only human to do so, but why not actually (and i mean ACTUALLY) look at the brighter of side of things, even though it may seem there isn't any. every single thing that happens to you is a lesson for the future, it is an extra piece of armor that has been put onto you for the next thing to come, for the next experience, the next person, the next place, the next thing etc.. nothing is lost and nothing is the end of the world.
we are going to die, all of us, we suppose we have 1 life, so what is the point of ruining our existence 'crying about it'. that's kind of brutal for me to say, but it's the most honest thing i can tell you, and i think honesty is good. there's always hope in everything, you're never alone, stop hurting yourself, find distractions, everything will pass on and you'll feel better sooner than you think. love you