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Maybe I'm biased to my sister, maybe I'm not. But isn't it extremely unhealthy to lash out on your partner, call them names, strategically use the cats you've adopted together to hurt her, tell her your ex is better than her, all because you got angry?
I understand anger, believe me, I really do. I have done something similar in the past, purposefully saying hurtful, mean stuff to people out of fury, but when I have been told that that's fucked up, I learned to stfu and never pull shit like that again. But this mf, she's been doing this for how many times now.
My sister's moods depend entirely on whether their relationship is in a good condition, or not. She just came home crying and she never stopped until two hours later and at first I thought she was overwhelmed because she just quit her job, maybe she's having financial troubles, and I guess that contributes to the stress as well then I saw her phone and she had called her girlfriend so many times on Instagram, all unanswered.
IGNORED.
THIS WOMAN IS DRIVING ME NUTS. I GET IT, MY SISTER PROBABLY DID SOMETHING WRONG, BUT TO GO SO FAR AS TO TELL HER YOU'RE GONNA GIVE YOUR CAT AWAY WHEN YK DAMN WELL SHE FUCKING ADORES THAT CAT. WHAT A RAGING CUNT WHSIWMSJSJSIKAKSKWKSKAKSA.
I cannot think rationally on this one, I just wanna bash her head in with a stick, I'm so sorry.
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qing-he
They're back together and okay now, like nothing ever happened. And she brought her other cat to her gf's home so all their cats are living w their manipulative mom now but my sister's there as well so now I'm not only worried about the animals but my sister as well because what if they fight again.
I am soooo sick bruh
qing-he
My ridiculous sister is going to her POS gf. Ain't that wonderful. I'm not even going to meddle in this shit anymore bro.
qing-he
They still haven't talked to each other properly and my sister's been bursting into tears spontaneously simce I posted this. I hope they break up. I hope they break up. I hope they break up.
globagorb
imo your sister's gf is a really manipulative person that relishes on the fact that she's got this much influence over your sister's emotions. it's like a power play, yknow?
so, inherently, it's a pretty toxic relationship. putting the cats in the middle, though, is UNFORGIVABLE. like, how dare she.
the bouncing back part is tricky, since that's probably the saving grace of the relationship for your sister. a few nice words, apologies and empty promises work wonders when you're seeing things through rose-tinted glasses. yknow, the type that cupid likes to give to whoever he shoots.
bottom line; talk to her about this. make your opinion heard. she might not like what you have to say, but she'll realise that you've got her best interest in mind. besides, an outside point of view might help snap her out of it
I've been very stern on my stance of how toxic I find her relationship is from the very first time I heard about their fights and how frequent it was. They've broken up a bunch of times too, but they somehow always end up getting back together. She doesn't listen to me, or our other sister. Middle child and I have made it clear that we don't like how she's being treated and that she should leave. They've been together for a year now. : /
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damn... im not sure what you can do in this case then. it's hard to save a person that doesn't want to be saved or that doesn't think they have anything to be saved from. hope you find a way man
by globagorb; ; Report
They're long distance and honestly I'm close to hiding her electronics from her but unfortunately she's a corporate worker so I can't.
Thank you anyway, I'll keep trying until they break up permanently ( ╹▽╹ ) my sister may forgive her but I will not. ( ╹▽╹ )
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kimchili_pepper
Literal toxic relationship, she should leave if possible! (Although it's not that easy)
I always tell her to leave, but idk what's going on in her lesbian brain that she just can't. •́ ‿ ,•̀
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qing-he
Oh and btw, the very terrible thing she's done is occasionally forget to clean their cats poop. And normally I would say yeah that's pretty gross, BUT SHE WAS SICK FOR TWO WEEKS. THEY WERE BOTH SICK, AND SHE WAS ALSO MAD ATY SISTER WHEN THEY WERE SEVERELY SICK CAUSEY SISTER DOESN'T EAT WHEN PEOPLE USUALLY NEED TO, SHE JUST DOES SO WHEN SHE FEELS HUNGER. WE ALL HAVE FUCKED UP RS W FOOD. ISTG, HATE HER GIRLFRIEND SO FUCKING MUCH.
I do not know why, or how, they always manage to bounce back after every argument cause this just makes me barf.