dramatic people

ok so i have a friend that everything i say she takes it personal and she says the most hurtful things and once i ask her what tf is wrong with her, she just says "it's the tone u used that make me mad" THAT'S MY NORMAL TONE?!! IM SORRY FOR NOT KNOWING HOW TO CONTROL MY TONE, she once said i looked ugly with no bangs and i felt really bad, and she just said "it was a joke hehe" I DIDN'T FELT IT LIKE A JOKE U BTCH, but she told me she didn't shower yesterday and I said "eww, you gross" as a funny way and she said "you are not clean" GIRL?!! i see why u didnt have friends before, she also said my conversations with her were boring and that we never talk, so i said that it was because she told me i was boring when i talked and she just said that it "stop victimizicing" CAN YOU STOP BEING A BITCH YOU MDFCKER?!! i've tried to be nice and she is so rude, i can't control the way my words com out of my mouth, for me i say it normal but it turns off it was a mean tone?, im sorry but THAT'S MY NORMAL TONE, they've told me my tone sounds in a defensive way always, sadly that's how i talk always but everyone knows that is default i myself, she also knows but gets mad at me for a innocent joke and tolds me a bag of shit, but if i try to defend myself or gets angry or feel bad she says i'm victimizicing myself, i really don't hate her but she makes me want to stop talking forever, she makes me feel like shit.

YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE (she has my spacehey)