This incel to trans girl pipeline thing is giving me whiplash (tw for some short nsfw)

Before you say anything, no I'm not being transphobic. I believe both trans women and men are valid, and deserve the proper medical attention to be able to transition safely and should be treated with respect.

The incel to trans girl pipeline is a topic mainly discussed 4chan (I'm not on 4chan- i've just seen a lot from there) Incels (most often) aren't transitioning because they want to be women. They're transitioning because they think that turning into a cutesy women will be easier than life as an incel.

From what I've seen their logic is based off of gender stereotypes. Incels want a life with a gf, maybe a wife and kids, but they can't get that due to many obvious factors. They envy the attention girls get, they think they're lives are perfect and they want that so badly. They think women live their life on "easy mode" and if they can't get that life as a man... why not transition into a women and live a happy life? 

I was watching a video (this one) and it's very interesting. I think you should go watch it because it goes into more detail about this pipeline than I will! But at the beginning there are these posts made by an incel transitioning to a girl.

The wording of the posts are literally a rollercoaster of the writer still using the misogynistic tones but at the same time seemingly enjoying being a girl more than they expected? I very much think this is someone who has a very clouded view on womanhood and how difficult they think being a woman is but they seem to be deeply closeted/in denial of what they truly want; which is to be a girl for the sake of being a girl not for the positive attention incels think women get for no reason.

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Looking at these do you see what I mean? At first the only reason they transitioned was bcus they thought life as a girl would be easier (and maybe for this person it is, but that's besides the point) but while in the transition process they seemingly discover true happiness. They write all this while still lwk shitting on women and kinda implying women's hormones can dumb them down but all while writing something truly meaningful- 

This kinda shows just how badly all genders are treated. There are constant gender wars. Who has it worse, and who's fault is it. Clearly women are still in a difficult place and men seem to not care but there are also women who seem to think that all their problems come from men. There can be mysoginists and misandrists. Now misandrists don't cause nearly as many problems as mysoginsts (in terms of taking away basic human rights) but they still exist. 

AND they shouldn't! We shouldn't fight over who has it worse. We shouldn't take womens rights away. We shouldn't belittle mens problems either. The mysoginst and misandrist mindsets are nothing but harmful for both s3xes. And we can clearly see how the idea that men shouldn't be in a feminine position, they should be masculine, never cry, get whatever they want cause they want it whenever they want it is effecting incels. It's so bad that they have this messed up view that women get it so easy and it's to the point that they think in order for a better life they HAVE to transition. It's so out of hand and nobody knows what to do about it-

Uhhh anyway... ( ꩜ ᯅ ꩜;) 

I just find this entire thing very interesting. Again not hating on any types of trans ppl (even the incels) I just wanted to talk about it cus it's pretty fascinating- and I'm truly sorry if nothing I'm saying is making sense because this is really just a braindump and I'm never good about getting my point across. Sorry ₍^. .^₎⟆