In need of Love Advice

To put it short i have a friend (Fake name: Eri.) My friend Eri has a friend (fake name: Kara.)

Basically, Eri sent me a picture of her friend Kara. And I kind of got a crush on her, she has a really cool style and is just genuinely just very pretty. That’s why I also half-jokingly asked my friend to give me her number, Eri agrees, and I promptly received Kara’s WhatsApp #.

We started talking, and I of course started talking to Eri about it. (Like how I think she’s really sweet and stuff.) Eri then proceeds, to tell me that “we both like each other” and “Kara likes you back, confess already.” I say no, (will admit a bit jokingly because I thought Eri was also joking) because I’ve never been in a relationship before, and at this point I’ve only known Eri for TWO DAYS.

Eri ends up getting a bit frustrated with me because “I need to confess and stop stalling on it” And ends up making a group chat with Me, Klara and Herself where she quote writes “you both like each other confess already.” Again, I’ve only known this girl for TWO DAYS.

Anyways, we end up in a weird “talking stage” of sorts. And I don’t know how to say this, but Eri’s whole charade kinda killed it for me. I don’t know, it’s kind of like a had a little spark going for Kara. And I was still trying to figure out if the spark would turn into a flame for her. And then Eri just shoved me and Kara in the most unstable extremely flammable cabin and told us to “sort it out.” I haven’t told anyone, but my feelings kind of evaporated the second Eri did that. I was not at all ready, and I’ve realized that I honestly see Kara more as a friend than Girlfriend.

I feel stuck, like I wasn’t really given a choice or whatever. Idk, I have to tell Kara I don’t like her. (WHICH IS AKWARD AF) and I feel like if Eri hadn’t created that dumb group chat, I would have been able to sort my feelings out way sooner.

Eri keeps on telling me that “her and her bf got together after five days” but like, you have relationship experience?? Idk what the fuck is going on, and you’re also batshit crazy??

Advice needed on how to bring this up with Eri, and how to break up with Kara. (I am long distance with both of them btw, so yes sadly I can’t do anything in person)


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