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Me and my boyfriend are long distance.. He's in school while I dropped out. He doesn't have school on Saturday, Sunday and Monday so I always try to talk to him when he is not in school. I was recently in a residential program where I couldn't talk to him for almost 2 months and when I got out I was so excited to talk to him again cause we couldn't talk for exactly 7 and a half weeks. I told him in advance about me not being able to talk to him while I was there. When I got out I texted him the second I got out the door and he didn't answer the whole day and I was just like "Oh, he's probably just busy with school!!" So I messaged him daily when I knew he wasn't in school and I didn't get an answer till several days later when I said "Darling, We need to talk..." all he said was "I'm busy" it absolutely shattered my heart cause I haven't been able to talk to him for 2 fucking months and he just says "I'm busy" WHAT THE FUCK!!! He went back to not responding at all. I have been trying to tell him about something that happened to me there cause I love him more than anything and I don't want to keep secrets from him. While I was there one of the other clients was s3xu@lly h@r@ss1ng me and making me super uncomfortable. I didn't want to hide stuff from my boyfriend so I have been trying to tell him for almost a week now... My boyfriend never has time for me anymore and never talks to me anymore and its really hurting me a lot.. I had terrible luck with relationships and I'm scared that my boyfriend is gonna ghost me then dump me just like most of the other guys... What do I do??
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🪲☮𝕽𝖔𝖈ħ𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖊 ☮🪲
Unfortunately, I think this is where your relationship ends. I think him not making any effort to talk to you or comfort you after a long communication break shows this. I can't tell if this was overtime losing interest/feelings or something, but I'm sure there's a reason for this. There may be a place for this relationship to be fixed, but it takes two people to make something grow, and it seems very one-sided at the moment.
Even if he was busy, everyone is capable of small responses and won't take days for one response. If someone really loves someone, they will MAKE time for someone they love, even if it may not be a super long, extended conversation. Sorry that you're being treated that way, but remember to take care of yourself regardless of what comes from this.
Peace.