I hate dudes

See there’s a difference between gentlemen and dudes. Dudes suck bc they’ll only be nice to you for like five days max and then they’ll treat you like shit. A gentleman is a gentle man, he’ll always treat you like a princess, kiss the ground you walk on, gasp the air you breathe, and give you no reason to walk away. 

This dude almost had me fooled tho. He only saw me as a grimy lying stripper. And just because the last girl supposedly did you dirty, doesn’t mean I will. Not all dancers are the same. Not all of us are escorts (prostitutes). I keep it strictly only work. Once I leave the club, I go home. You’ll never see me leave with a customer or see them on my days off. I deserve real love, I should be allowed to talk about my work day and not be judged bc of jealousy and insecurity. I shouldn’t be doubted every second of the day because of past experiences. 

Giving people the benefit of the doubt and meeting them half way is so important bc that’s the only way you’ll ever move forward. If you don’t learn this you’ll only hurt the people that are trying so fucking hard to show you love, you’ll only push them further away instead of getting close to them. Be genand love deeply. It’s so important in this world, that’s all we need.