blog 6: alexa nikolas and me being mad as hell

CONTENT WARNINGS: mentions of cases to do with sexual abuse when it comes to children, racial microaggressions, victim blaming, alcohol induced rambling (not from me) ((these are all mostly brief though, dont worry yall)

take care yall, enjoy my angry yap

I have honestly no clue how to start this blog, all i know is that i am mad as hell tonight and that is because of one woman. Alexa Nikolas.

Now, if you don't know who Alexa Nikolas is (because honestly I wouldn't expect you too, she is quite irrelevant), I'll explain very quickly before I get pissed at her. At the time i am writing this (Oct 1st 2025), Alexa Nikolas is 33 years old. She is a former actress who has worked on shows like Zoey 101, The Walking Dead, and The Suite Life of Zack and Cody. But, she is more known for her victim advocacy group "Eat Predators." Which she made in response to being a victim herself.

SIDE NOTE: there is a lot of issues with the Eat Predators group, some of which i will mention in this blog but i will link a much longer and more personal to the situation youtube video that explains the issues of the group in ways i could never.

Back to the rant.

Alexa Nikolas came back into the mainstream spotlight within the first year because of both the docuseries called "Quiet on Set" and her strange new support of Drake Bell. A victim in his own right who went on later in life to victimize others. This has been proven because Bell pleaded guilty to felony charges of Child Endangerment.

And now, in 2025, she is suing an independent journalist named Kat Tenbarge for defamation all because Kat accused that Alexa released unsealed and unredacted pages of the court case against Bell. But in that same lawsuit she mentions youtuber Adam Mcintyre like 30 times, despite not suing him.

Now, there has been a back and forth between Alexa and Adam, and this is where my big problem starts.

Alexa Nikolas gets drunk on stream and makes micro-aggressive comments towards Paige Christie, a black content creator who does deep dive commentary videos on modern pop culture. Not only that Alexa makes these weird comments towards Adam about his victimhood. Saying how he would be nothing without his abuser Colleen Ballinger.

Now these things, i have a huge issue with. 

Alexa had no right to be that aggressive towards Paige, when Paige did nothing to her. Paige is a commentator, it's her job to commentate on things happening in the internet-sphere. Same with Adam, as he is also a commentator, same with Kat Tenbarge, as she is a journalist.

And i know being employed is a very tricky idea for Alexa to comprehend but that does not define her actions as understandable.

Especially when it comes to dissecting a teenage victim's story to figure out if the timeline matched up. Alexa, we get it, you're best buds with Drake Bell. But you have built a platform on believing victims. Dissecting stories on the internet is not believing.

And to discredit Adam Mcintyre's entire career and linking his whole success to Colleen Ballinger is fucking horrible of you. While saying earlier in your stream that you would never punch down a survivor just because you may disagree with them. That's what you did. 

Some people may say that Alexa didn't mean these things because she was drinking an entire bottle of liquor in 40 minutes, and to that I say... what? I've been drunk numerous times in my life and I ain't never said very micro aggressive statements and question whether people are lying about their victimhood or not. That's just wrong.

Now, if Alexa Nikolas ever sees this (she wont) this is how i'll close this off for her,

you are a disgrace to the survivor community, you are no representative for us as a collective. but ey, you are what you eat Alexas, and you fucking choked.

VIDEOS:

Adam Mcintyre reacting to Alexa Nikolas' deleted live stream: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYWYOhWBb2g

Former Eat Predator's member speaks out on the harm of the organization and the problems within: https://youtu.be/ui0G7nIRPXo?si=zTFcYxwaLl8BBg2f

(also yes i realize both of these videos are very anti-alexa, but since her side is all about screaming fake news and defamation, i want to drown out the crazy)